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Eye contact...To do or not to ?

Hello Friends ,
Today's topic , an absolute essential ...Eye contact.
How to ....? Why to...?Where to .....not to ?
Well Eye contact doesn't at all mean staring in the eyes of opposite person . Well eye contact means looking at the Third eye. Now where's the Third Eye. It's the spot between the two eyebrows .Lord Shiva ....Does that strike a chord ? Well Yes , Lord Shiva has a third eye between the two eyebrows .
 
How to ....eye contact ? 
Never look continuously in a person's eye .Break away every 5-7 seconds .It creates more  comfort level.

Why to.....eye contact?
It shows your appreciation and attention to the opposite person .Never look over a person's shoulder .It's absolutely insulting.

Where to .....eye contact?
An interview usually but mostly in every conversation & communication it's  a must.

Not to ....eye contact ?
If you want to disapprove or show disgust cutting off eye contact is anyday better than aggressive behaviour.

Well ,Eye contact is very important but to do or not to do is the question .
TC ...Your ENGLISH GUIDE.

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  1. Brilliantly written topic on eye contact and its essence in communication !!

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  2. Very informative article Urvashi...sometimes, our eyes and body language speak even more than words.

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